If you have met me in person, or you have enough of a feel about me purely from online interaction, would you (or have you ever) consider(ed) me to be some form of a [R-word]? If this perception of me is new to you, please let that settle in for a moment, and then ponder again. Do I exhibit attributes of a [R-word] that might make me off-putting, difficult to know, difficult with whom to know how to communicate, or generally undesirable compared to more conventional and less [R-word]ed options?